Wednesday, March 3, 2010


Four days ago I stumbled over a Yahoo profile, created by a male calling himself Tab. He wrote:

“Reward power is reward based. Coercive Power is fear based. Legitimate Power is position based. Expert Power is knowledge based. Reverent Power………..”

Now, power has its charm of cors. But only in the vanilla world. In my world it’s more kind of a relic, saved out of curiosity, to be used when people employed by me, r procrastinating, r goofing off, have the nerve to harass me, ......well u know, that kind of thing.

Naturally i make use of it as well, and with sardonic pleasure i must say, when dealing with pseudo thrill seekers, the ones who believe submission is a gift, that recreational femdom is the real thing, and who r convinced i’m in this world to satisfy their repressed sexual drive during their leisure time. Occasionally, i let these poor wanderers feel what it truly means to be really humiliated, and forced into activities which r a long shot from what they had in mind, and then guide them out of the garden of their dreams, which turned out to be a nightmare, back to the safe comfort zone they came from. When in a good mood, i slip the cell number of an excellent pro-domme into their trembling macho hands b4 leaving, so they can get some illusionary relief after all.

Oh yes, and also when politicians behaving even worse than they normally do, or (sigh) when my garbage is not collected in time. But then we’re already in the suburbs of VanillaLand eh?

Above i inserted Tab’s profile picture, in a bit retouched form of cors (grin), and wrote on his page the following:

Ah yes power. So many kinds of it. So much talk about it. Who cares? Yes i know: A lot. But why? It's only a balance thingy. A relative thingy so to speak. Something a moron has more or less of, depending on the more or less of other morons. Now look at ur profile pic. It seems that girl lost all of her power. But did she really? I say: In that position she’s more powerful than ever b4. It’s meaningless tho. Power belongs to the vanilla world. Keep it there. Let it rot there, and ultimately decompose there. In the world of d/s it has no place. Look at ur girl again, stripped from all power, and yet so powerful. She is ur slave. R u her slave? Come on, do it now. Feel her, feel urself, unite with her, unite with urself, merge with her into one powerful Gestalt, lost in passion and lust. Who would care about power in moments like that, when all control is lost, and all control is manifesting itself in one powerful wave of greed and ecstasy, when the only thing left is an overwhelming desire to disappear together in an unfathomable abyss, never to return again, welded to each other by an unbreakable bond of flesh and spirit?

It took him some time but there it was: Tab’s reply (unedited):

@Ayesha:Thank you for your comments and yes your comments and view points were appreciated ..I think that you were the first to comment on the actual word I agree that power is irrelevant and only creates a sense to whoever gives or receives as long as both derive their own pleasure out of the deed! At the end of the day though it does not really matter how but what each person gained from the experience that counts and thanks again for your interest..hope to hear from you again.

Hmmmmm, i wasn't really charmed by his comment, and i think he missed the essence, and some of the fine nuances of my point, but hey, it was much better than the usual drivel i’m exposed to in Cyberspace. Reason why i honored his request to take a seat on my list over there. Sitting there for a while might make him aware of what the real consequences r when kicking the concept of power out of the d/s realm. And who knows, maybe one day, he’ll also find the power to look into himself, in his psyche, in his soul, and find what he was not looking for. Time will learn, if he belongs to those which i consider the right stuff.

And u know what i consider even more powerful? A relentless desire to look into the soul of ur soul slave (if u have one), and find the treasures she’s hiding. As for me? It turns me on the mega way, not only to look for them, but also to force them out of her, to give her no rest, till our souls collide and explode, creating one new supernova. How about that huh? Am I the lyrical one here or what? Yes people that’s what femdom is about. The rest is decoration. True, decoration is important as well, and can be very thrilling, exciting, and adding to the intensity and overall passion to unite. But like it is with the wrapping of a present, it’s just that, wrapping, which by itself is nothing.

Excuse me? Him? Oh him. But of cors. I’ll force his treasures out of him too. Alas, not so many males have the power, or the stomach for that. But the ones that have? Caramba, those r a real treat. I once had such a true male chained to a whipping pole, and...........