Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Dominant housewives and company (part 1)


Intro
The other day i landed on a blog of which the owner, back in 2009, criticized the work of Nanshakh. As if this wasn’t already bad enough by itself, his assessment of this great femdom illustrator came across to me like one from a person who found some flaws in the ideology of Zionism and therefore condemned the whole movement including the state of Israel, or one who detected there was something not completely kosher with Obamacare and for that reason considered all medical insurance evil and demonic. I won’t tell u who this person was, cos it was Steve from The Glow Inside.
It also appeared that Steve believes that femdom doesn’t exist. According to what i could pick up from his prose and his comments on the matter during our brief exchange of thoughts, femdom for him is just a fantasy created by and to amuse males. Given the immense amount of nonsense told, written, and emptied into the sewers of the Internet by zillions of self proclaimed d/s connoisseurs on an hourly basis, i can imagine poor Steve could not come to a different conclusion. Mainstream femdom is based on male fantasy indeed and is far from the practices of women who were born dominant and live accordingly. Still, Sir Steve should have looked beyond his nose. He said he did, but i saw no sign of this. I told him about feminine femdom, and directed him to a few urls on my site. To no avail. The only thing he said he could conclude from my site was that i was a hypocrite, "……widely dismissive and scornful of the lifestyles of many others……." and "….. every time I read your blog – which is not that often I admit – I feel like I am being berated about my own inadequacy and then schooled in the ‘correct’ path, which always sounds very vague to me." The urls i sent him? "……sorry lady, but I just read through some more paragraphs of scorn heaped upon your beloved enemy, vanilla femdom, with not much idea of what you really do."



And then i thought: Hey, let me write another "dismissive and scornful" one. So, if u have any complaints, direct them to Steve. This blog and the next one r all his fault!

I’m sure u already suspect what’s coming ur way (again, hehehe). And yes u r right. This time i’ll aim at housewives. Not housewives in general mind u. Oh no. Too many great females among them for that. And i truly respect (well, with a certain smile dripping from leniency and goodwill eh?) the ones who sacrifice themselves on the altar of their spouse’s desire to be led, disciplined, and play second fiddle in the home. A true "exchange of power", hehehe. Yep, that’s what these men r after. Not that they would have possessed any significant power b4 that illusionary revolution, but still, for them it’s monumental, lol. Or is it only a feeble attempt to come to that?

Of cors these women know perfectly well they’re only playing along, and wouldn’t even think to claim otherwise. Some of them get depressed during the never ending process. Some of them feel lost after a while and need to constantly reconfirm their new role. Some of them learn the hard way that their husband is a wimp, and can’t take it when the wife truly takes over the reins. But these ladies r sincere and love their men. And they show it too! Still, it’s a world upside down.



So what will be my target today? Read on :)

State of affairs
We have desperate housewives, real housewives, suburban housewives, so on. But did u know there also r dominant housewives? No? Does domestic goddesses ring a bell? These days one can meet them everywhere. Especially on the Internet. And they blog, blog, and blog some more. When done blogging, they go to sleep. Or desperately continue searching for a man who needs a surrogate mom. Or look for porn. Femdom porn to be specific. Not that they r femdoms themselves eh? Far from that. Nevertheless they insist they r. And don’t tell them they’re not, cos then they’ll get nasty, lose control, start calling u names, and turn to their equally misguided followers to get rescued from evil people like urs truly. Time and again i did my best to explain to them who and what they really r. It didn’t help. I found no hearing. Can u imagine?


These self proclaimed dominants r not a new phenomenon. Their type inhabits planet Earth already for ages. We all know for instance the tales of Xanthippe (or maybe not?), and the way she allegedly treated poor Socrates. Molière called them les femmes savantes. A great specimen is Philaminte (played by a man, lol. Yes cross-dressing was already in back then, hehehe), a vain woman who believes she’s very sophisticated, irresistible, learned, and special. She intimidates and humiliates her husband (hubby or subhubby nowadays), and keeps him under her thumb. Really a true sub-archetype of her kind. More or less like Dufresny’s Madame Prenelle and her laughable husband Jeannot. Many followed in the footsteps of these characters, reinforced and supported in their belief to be dominant by the flattery of menfolk seeking to satisfy their equally lame idea of being a slave while in fact they’re nothing more than a henpecked husband.

Now don’t get me wrong eh? And don’t u dare to put words into my mouth! I’ll be the last one to deny these women and their acolytes adding a little bit of zest to their vanilla lives. But they r mega hardheaded u know, unshaken in their rigid and rusty beliefs, constantly declaring they r dominants to the backbone, while at the same time making excuses for not being dominant 24/7/365. Especially when they’re having kids still in the phase of terrorizing their homes, their dominance is going into hiding as soon as the little rascals r around. They write numerous blogs to explain all this, ending mostly with a definition of femdom which covers their specific way of living and the message that they have a sacred right for doing so. Of cors these dames know they r wrong, and r only corrupting the concept of femdom. Or could it be they’re that delusional? I’m sure some of them r, lol.

I can only guess their reasons for acting like that, but whatever they r, it’s stupid to hijack something that u didn’t want to own in the first place and never will/could be urs anyway. How do i know that? Oh, i came around u know? That should be sufficient no? It isn’t? Well, ok, i’ll lift part of the veil. Understand well tho, it’s not coming from hearsay. I would never claim to have knowledge about anything if i didn’t have at least some firsthand experience of it. For instance, i would never tell people what should be done or not in a war zone or how one makes decisions when under mortar fire, if i hadn’t be in situations like that myself. I leave the latter to women like the one who (rightly so) believes her dominance is a bit disheveled and who was only too eager to lecture me about war, basing same only on what she learned from some of her family members who happened to be (once) in the military. I would have provided a link to show u this, but she removed 22 comments of the original 51, so that wouldn’t make much sense to do. Yes, it’s like my outstanding friend Raposo Neves once wrote: "To contribute to the conversation" around these parts means saying the same as everybody else, just with different words. Indeed, as soon as it gets a bit out of the mainstream bubble, controversial, interesting, hot, or challenging, these people favor to be in denial of reality.

So again, how do i know? From having met plenty of this breed the time i still was visiting conferences on bdsm, fetish clubs, and munches. From having read books on the subject by writers like Elise Sutton (and angrily dismissed their patriarchal based femdom). From having participated in Yahoo Groups discussions and a litany of forums. From reading blogs. From having had online conversations with some of these people. Of cors also from the time i was involved with mainstream d/s myself. And i won’t even mention my ability to look into the soul of anyone i would target for it, to break down their defenses in a minimum of time, and to have on the sly a sneak peek into their hidden and unknown compartments. No, i won’t do that. And neither will i reveal the thoughts of other women like myself on this specific subject, or tell u about the grinning of my slaves when they read blogs like for instance the one of a woman who prefers to come online as one of the Pteridophyta, a reluctant dominant who tells us she’s constantly in trouble, or that female lawyer who believes it’s of utmost importance that men should write tons of lines for punishment. So no, absolutely not. Hmmmm, maybe i will. But not now.



It became clear to me that most of these women r not in it cos they r dominant, but, like the rest of their vanilla sisters, cos they r submissive, illustrating same by going along with the desire of their husband to be dominated by them. Again, as long as they keep from telling me and the rest of the in-crowd how dominant they r, all is fine. Play along, enjoy,  and be happy, but leave femdom to femdoms and stop contaminating my beautiful world.



Many males, allegedly dwelling in the suburbs of the velvet underground, argue that a woman’s dominance can be awakened, that it is only slumbering within her, waiting for Prince Slave to show his Goddess the way to ever happy and prosperous SlaveryLand. I call this desperate wishful thinking, leading to a never ever self-fulfilling prophecy. A woman simply knows if she’s dominant or not. She doesn’t need anybody to tell her that, nor a man to prepare her for her awakening or to manipulate her into that direction. Yes i know. Many women in this medium r trying to convince their readers this fable is true and how they gradually became more and more dominant, how they, after having done some rigorous soul searching, discovered their inner femdom and how they freed themselves from the patriarchal yoke. Yeah right. It’s crap people! Yes, that’s what it is: Crap! Why else would they keep on hiding their so called new found personality from their family, friends, colleagues, and the public in general?  

And don’t get me started on them switches, who after having jump started their dried out vanilla engines, erratically and out of control r navigating from dom-space to sub-spave vv in ssc-space, hahaha. Ridiculous!




Still, as i explained in my blog about Lilith and Eve years ago, there r women among us who r not submissive at heart and would want to be like Lilith, the archetype of freedom, independence, assertiveness, sexual aggression, and honesty. Alas, many of them lack the courage and cultural background to indeed follow in her footsteps and do what their inner voices tell them to do. On the contrary, most of these women choose, willingly or not, to be like Eve, the archetype of submissiveness and dishonesty, camouflaging same by displaying what is called in the culture at force, kindness, warmth, friendliness, altruism, etc. Hence the concept of the “loving female authority” was born. It’s a cunning way of responding to their situation and the sexual desires of males who, like these women, never will go all the way, who never would want to fall into the hands of a woman like me, afraid as they r for women who truly were born to own a stable of slaves, who laugh at d/s monogamy, mock all that nonsense of building a d/s relationship, the responsibility that comes with same, and all the other issues which ad nauseam r discussed in the virtual world and beyond. 

When it comes right down to it, these women r pampering their self proclaimed servants’ ego and sexual urges in order to get from them in return what they want from these men without having even remotely to be dominant. It’s simply the well known vanilla relationship where the woman knows how to play her man, how to wind him round her little finger. Of cors the participating parties will mostly deny this, and insist they’re truly and genuinely working toward a d/s relationship or even r in it already. Call it FLR, WLH, FLH, or whatever, but refrain from calling it d/s or worse………femdom. Cos it is not! 


So, while most women will lead a life according to what the patriarch has designed for them, some females, still feeling the remnants of what Lilith ages ago sowed in the DNA of the female gender, will cultivate these delicate seeds, make them grow and flower again. Then harvest them ruthlessly. Those women r femdoms! Compared to the masses there r only a few of us. But we do exist. We always have. Even in ultra patriarchal societies we survived. Often we r and were described as tyrants, demons, evil witches, monsters, so on. Like it was done for instance with Lilith, Vashti and Morgana le Fay. Done only cos males fear(ed) us and need(ed) to destroy our splendor, resilience, integrity, and strength, for them to be able to uphold their fragile ego and fake dominance. Of cors Eve and Esther became celebrated heroines just cos they bowed to and were servile to their man. 


The sad thing is, that even nowadays so many women r still supporting the patriarch and his outdated and narrow-minded values, norms, ideas, and philosophies, while, since it became trendy in certain circles of their society, at the same time r trying to make others believe of the opposite. The true numbers of femdoms r currently blurred by these so called dominant housewives, other self proclaimed recreational female dominants, and women who want to resist the patriarch but can’t bring themselves to go all the way and leave his world. Their solution? They start(ed) to challenge him without leaving that world, and instead, try to fight him with the same tools he has used to subjugate them since the down of times, to imitate him, and to become his equal. Hence emancipation, feminism, the cry for women’s leadership, and vanilla femdom were born.

Add to this the deep rooted desire of males, including those bragging semi- machos, to be the slave to a woman, the same cowardice never to go for that all the way, and their fear for not complying with the demands of archaic as well as newly developed convictions in their vanilla society, et voilà the inevitable continuation of more of the same, sold as progress, gender equality, and yes, fake female dominance, fake slavery, and fake slaves (often replaced by sub, and worse, by subbie hubby, pet, boi, toy, fucktoy, or whatever derogatory silliness), is a fact and here to stay for a long time to come.



Luctor et emergo?

Oh i did, i did. Rest assured i did. Many times even. And believe me, it wasn’t always an easy thing to do. But they? Nah, not really. Still, they r struggling all right. I mean with their new found dominance eh? Sometimes in a more serious way, other times with clenched teeth and trying to be witty without being humorous, but always in a dull, boring and cliché fashion. If i tell them so, they start knitting their brows, inevitably r coming up with all kinds of crap to get me in line with their vanilla convictions, and in the end will ban me from posting to their precious blogs, forums, or groups.

In one of the blogs i was contributing to till i became her persona non grata, the lady of the house made it her quest to interview numerous awakened housewives and company, asking them an array of non-committal questions during these events. No wonder she repeatedly avoided to respond to my more challenging questions herself. Not that they were really challenging eh? But i'm sure they were interpreted like that, hehe. 

She invited me too, but it never came to that, due to the fact that she couldn’t bear i only would participate without any conditions set. Yep, i’m all for free speech, anti moderation, and alien to censorship. One would expect all dominant women to support this, to think and act like that. And they do u know. It’s them fake dominants pretending to be dominant and r following them destructive rules of them creepy conservative patriarchs, who don’t, not us.




Brace urself for Part 2 :)


 

45 comments:

  1. Thank You for sharing Lady Ayesha.

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  2. Mistress Ayesha,

    I would agree with your statement that you are evil and people need to be rescued from you. Or let me think bout that. Maybe you are evil and there are people who want to be in your unbridled wrathful hands and not be rescued. Yes, I think that is a better way of saying it and I am one of those sad individuals.

    ;-}

    …and what’s wrong with cross dressing. If you saw me in a corset navy blue silk teddy you may change your mind. I am quite lovely. Hehe… JK, or am I… I really do not know….

    On a serious note, I whole heartedly agree with you that FemDom in a true form outside of patriarchal influences is a highly elusive thing which will only become common once women such as yourself are able to become free of the shackles of the patriarchal systems in which they find themselves and express themselves from a feminine source. I have been considering religion recently and I know you do not subscribe to any. I personally believe a women led church where female figures are studied as a source of inspiration and guidance, where the leaders of the church are women, and men are welcome, but asked to remain quite during services would be a wonderful thing to have available. For instance there is the wife of Moses, who led Jethro’s operations. There is the mother of Jesus, know in Catholic circles as ‘The Mother of God’. There are many Hindu female deity too, not to mention ones from antiquity you refer to.

    My wife is a born leader. I find it enjoyable to follow her. She is from Latin America were patriarchal roots are pretty common and she is still growing into her dominant role. We love each other greatly and are enjoying the time we have been given together immensely.

    Take care.

    -SH

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    1. Apparently u've never read my take on shemales and the way we party publicly, hehehe.

      And there is Ayesha the Prophetess, a.k.a Deva NostraDomina, daughter of Xiliartha and Sveron from the House of The Other People.

      Two of the women i'm currently living with and who share my bed r Latinas too. Alejandra is from Venezuela and Lucinda was born in Colombia.

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  3. Mistress Ayesha,

    With a pretty bow in my hair and clad in silk, I am confident my innocent eyes would be sufficient evidence of my true inner submissive self. Also too, my wife has my oral skills being practiced often. I am quite good at making women's insides tremble and am thankful for her allowing me to perfect this skill.

    tehehe....

    ;-}

    -SH

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    1. U should know when it comes to males in drag, i'm way more entranced by hard bodies in sensual heavy rubber and dark black leather than by silk, and when it comes to sexual encounters i prefer a more rough approach than a gentle one. But i guess u already picked that up from me.

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  4. Here's a housewife anthem, while we're waiting for Part 2 of this blog:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DwBirf4BWew

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    1. Lmao! Good one! And such a realistic picture of what's going on in dominant housewives' land, hehe.

      While watching ur vid, Lucinda came by and said: "Somewhere in that hair there must be a bird's nest".

      Here's a more recent one depicting mainstream flr.
      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bu3opUX6v5U
      Sooooo baaaaaad!

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    2. Lol!!! The only thing that changes are the hairdos, but the housewife mentality is here to stay.

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    3. That's right. But i have to say they're also coming out of the language closet and r using "fuck" and "fucking" quite openly now. It's a kind of emancipation move i think. Check the stories of Ferns and some of DD's prose for instance, and i'm sure u'll agree with me.

      And don't forget these dames r into porn too these days. Of cors, as u no doubt will remember, they're complaining about it, and only go for quality filth. Yep, the gender gap is closing on that front as well.

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    4. The gender gap IS closing. There's a great variety of quality strap-on dildos and harnesses on the market today. So Eve doesn't have to feel too handicapped about her missing... eh, rib... hm... or was it her better half that's missing..?

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    5. Oh, Eve is missing a lot, but she's a master in hiding and/or denying her feminine shortcomings.

      Did u know that some of her male followers r using them dildo contraptions too, leaving their biological one just hanging in there as a spectator to their clumsy and artificial performance?

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    6. I've seen pics of those chaste loverboys, it must be part of what bdsm-people call "power exchange". But it doesn't look like too good a deal, it looks more like some sort of a compromise. Here's a housewife fantasy about male performance, very catchy and entertaining:

      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ULmC8JTTVy0

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    7. Oh my! That song really must have shocked and damaged the Richter scale!

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    8. It's testosterone-music, you know ;-)

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    9. I think what they need is HRT.

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    10. Good idea! The next time they go to Rock In Rio, they can make an appointment with Léo Áquilla's doctor.

      http://leoaquilla.com.br/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/leo_aquilla_perfil-3-484x719.jpg

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  5. More than once i mentioned those r the CD's i allow to follow me to the wild side, and eventually become my slave. I love those free spirits who not only accept their desires, but find it naturally to display same publicly, and who really go for it to exploit and show off their femininity.

    If a man wants to look like, or truly BE the woman he is at heart, he should at least manage to be a passable one and passionate about it. Alas, most look ridiculous in heels.

    But not this one, oh no. This one is the real stuff!!
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NhX9WWF2NFk

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    1. Yes, to all of that!

      Léo Áquilla is a beautiful, graceful and elegant human being. Being a feminine boy from the beginning of life, she has always faced hostilities, but there's no harshness or ugliness in her, to ruin the way she shines as "the woman she is at heart", as you so nicely put it. "With the stones they threw at me, I built my castle", she says! And those stones include some very real ones being thown at her at a young and tender age.

      Not so long ago, she had decided to undergo a sex-change operation, but luckily she has changed her mind. She could have risked becoming a frustrated woman.

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    2. If one really is a TS, then SRS can be a blessing. In all other cases my advice would be: Be a sexy shemale and love ur dick like a woman.

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    3. Yes, it's interesting that even with all her femininity, Léo is not what's often described as a 'woman trapped in a male body'.

      There is a woman there, but not trapped :-)

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    4. A sexy feminine man, dressed in woman's luxurious leather and skyscraper heels, makes the perfect shemale. Especially when i go out dancing with her, wearing my sluttiest outfit ever, and make her so horny in public that her clit is bulging out of proportions and accentuating the male part of her, she becomes an incredible sight. Doing such things in an upper ten conservative and ultra chic place makes it even more exciting. A word of caution tho: Dominant housewives should be wary to participate in activities like that, hehehe.

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    5. Dancing away the night in "your sluttiest outfit ever", eh? What do you like to drink on such occasions, to maintain the fluid balance?

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    6. http://drtenge.com/excess/livejournal/32/1/16_jpg.jpg

      She seems to become aroused when she tortures men. Or maybe she tortures men when she becomes aroused, since she has a little bunch of them to her disposal.

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    7. Water.

      Oh yes, she becomes aroused by many things.

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  6. Mistress,

    Spectacular. I watched the whole thing. Thank you.

    Sincerely,

    -SH

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    1. Yes she's great! And like i wrote in http://ayeshafonseca.blogspot.com/2011/05/real-bimbos.html there r more of these terrific creatures. Often sexier and more conscious about womanhood than their gg sisters!

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    2. There's a lot of good points in the "bimbo"-blog. Right now it makes me think of an episode where a silly man was talking on a TV show, to Léo, about slapping or punching her in the face, inviting her to "step outside, if she wanted a beating". She says that her unresolved 'issue' with the man is about some offensive bullshit he had spoken, not about that threat. If he had tried to hit her, she says, she would have given him a kick that would have sent him to the graveyard.

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    3. Now THAT i can relate to! It's time for men to realize that there r a few women on this planet who can kill them off with a minimum of effort and without using any weapons. Remember http://ayeshafonseca.blogspot.com/2012/01/corrective-measures.html hehehe?

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    4. I remember so well the story about the disgusting pack of scumbags in the Maracaibo park — I became tense with suspense and unease when I was reading it the first time, and there's something particularly revolting about the way they split up and surrounded you.

      It is also time for WOMEN to realize that there are women on this planet that can easily finish men off, heh-heh...

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    5. I mean, as a step to get rid of their housewife mentality.

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    6. Yes, but chances r they never will. Once having that mentality, always staying with that mentality. But that's ok. We can easily manage the scumbags without their help :)

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  7. Mistress Ayesha,

    I know it is off topic, but yesterday was so wonderful I just have to tell someone. I woke at 4:40am, as I usually do, prepared my wife’s lunch and breakfast. I then tended to the children and started the laundry after they left for the school bus. After work, I took care of dinner and took our youngest to church for a class. When I got home, I made my wife dinner and brought it to her on a try in the bedroom. She asked for strawberries covered in chocolate drizzle after, which is a low calorie desert she enjoys. When she finished and I tended to the children going to bed, she prompted me to give her a massage on her calves, since her trainer had her run on the treadmill for about an hour today. When I finished she prompted me to give her oral, which brought her to an orgasm. The taste of her I absolutely relish like a starving man does food. After about ten minutes of lying together while she enjoyed the afterglow, she prompted me to give her another, but with her bullet. The second one took a little longer, but she arched her back and cried out. It was so wonderful for me. After I cleaned up and set everything back into the drawers from the massage, we went to sleep. Hers was very restful and deep. Mine came slowly due to being so aroused and confined. Her hand was on my left breast and her involuntary hand twitches gave me shots of pleasure as her fingers brushed my nipple.

    The day was just so wonderful from my submissive point of view, I can barely contain my pleasure.

    Today is laundry day, one of my highlights of the week, and yes I will remember the fabric softener.

    ;-}

    -SH

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    1. If you ask a macho man who's been through a rough ordeal, "is everything fine with you", he might reply "the only thing that could possibly be better, would be having to go through this again tomorrow" :-D

      You enjoy doing what you do, SH, but a mortal man like me couldn't help but think about this line when I read your comment, hehe. I can work myself to death in hard and tedious labour, but I cannot live in a "family life" situation, it's too suffocating.

      That's part of the reason I like to tease and mock housewife-dommes online. I mock and tease housewives in reality too, since I happen to know a few. But none of those have any idea that there could be a 'dominant' woman inside of them, and I'm not gonna put that idea into their heads.

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    2. Ah, the blessings of gentle sex and household chores ;)

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  8. Mr. Raposo Neves,

    It is a slow process to be subjugated. Like the frog in the pot. Turn up the heat slowly, and he does not know he is being made into frog soup. He thinks he is taking a bath.

    I think Mistress Ayesha could speak to subjugation techniques which she has found work well for her. I am not schooled in such skills. Mine is to learn to find contentment in a position of following my wife's authority. I have done so through much practice.

    ;-}

    Sincerely,

    -SH

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    1. Finding contentment is good. I've known contentment, and I cherish it. When I hear the word, I immediately think "rest". After hardship, after unrest, to rest for a while is good, maybe even necessary sometimes, to avoid burning out.

      The other day, a friend commented about my unability to find contentment among other people, and about THEIR difficulties in getting the attention they want from me: "When we others discover what you already know, and try to catch up and meet you, you have moved on from that, you're no longer there."

      I am bored and restless when I'm with people, with their thoughts and ideas, their housemacho/housewife mentalities, their bourgeois souls. The only person I've seen in many, many years, that was AHEAD of me in several ways, that had something important to show me, is Ayesha.

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    2. Subjugation techniques? No such things needed/wanted in ThatPlace/The Labyrinth. Only when busy with activities like described in "Corrective measures" i could make use of them :)

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    3. Contentment makes me sleepy. More or less like a rolled up cat on a windowsill, totally absorbed with herself and ignoring the entire world around her. It's a terrific state to be in sometimes. But like the cat i'm still alert, ready to go at all times.

      Contentment is not my goal tho. I can enjoy it for a while, but can't be passionate about it.

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  9. “contentment makes me sleepy.”

    Mistress Ayesha,

    This phrase you just penned is only matched in caliber of such a unrivaled raw display of inspirational intelligence from two other people I have ever crossed paths with.

    The first is a former co-worker who when asked rhetorically, “They can’t fire us all” responded, “I wouldn’t say ‘can’t’. I would say ‘shouldn’t’ “. I found it a phrase with tremendous truth which I have come back to many times in my career.

    The second is Mr. Her Majesty’s plaything who coined the phrase, ‘you can’t punish a mouse by giving it a piece of cheese’. This is in reference in punishing a masochist by inflicting pain on them. As the phrase suggests, it simply can not be done.

    I thank you for adding to my top shelf repertoire.

    Sincerely,

    -SH

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    1. "....it simply can not be done."? R u absolutely sure?
      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y0sZJ_uNGz4

      But there r exceptions, hehehe.
      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zs7dXOBKgWs

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  10. Mistress Ayesha,

    Although your videos are to the point, the facts remain. If you expect to skinneristicly train a mouse to not do some behavior by every time they do so giving them a piece of cheese, you will find the effect is the mouse will actually begin to develop the behavior you are trying to counter.

    So too, I am writing this at 5:00am in the morning while I empty the dish washer and prepare my wife’s morning meal. I have very painful nipple clamps on. I use binder clips. It hurts to move around and to type on my computer. Also, when I remove the nipple clamps in a few moments, there will be a delicious shot of sharp pain which often freezes me and blurs my vision for a brief moment. If my wife tried to punish me this way, she may well find that I may begin to seek her doing so and thereby the effect would be the opposite. This is the genius of Mr. HMP encapsulating a great truth in such with such brevity.

    -SH

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  11. See? That's one reason why i'm not into training, conditioning, and punishing.

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  12. Although giving a submissive mouse a piece of cheese is not effective behavior modification, still, some women enjoy beating the shit out of a guy every now and again. Just got keep in mind that the submissive will be enjoying it.

    ;-}

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    1. As soon as whipping is out of the realm of behavior modification, training, punishment, or whatever stupid idea to correct a person, it becomes a hot, sensual, sexy, and out of this world experience for all participants. It's where dominas and slaves meet, explode, and unite in ecstasy. Clearly this is not even remotely related to "beating the shit out of a guy".

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