Sick

The woman in the picture above? Nah, i know her pretty well, and i can assure u, she’s in perfectly good health and excellent shape. Just look at her! Isn’t she all one could ever wish for in a woman? Ok, ok, she has a few nasty flaws as well, and some may consider her a bit provocative, while some would even accuse her of being a flaming bitch, a mad woman, a no good destroyer of vanilla values, and therefore in the end inevitably will come to the conclusion that she must be sick. But…um….. that’s only cos these people belong to a class i like to refer to as mental dwarfs. So no, she’s not sick. Just not normal.

What about the one on the horse then? Maybe she caught a cold or something? I mean, riding a horse naked could cause that eh? Again, no, nothing of the sort. And the horse is fine too. I mean this horse, cos there r many horses which r not, due to the way some people treat them. And that’s what this particular blog is about: People who get (sexual) pleasure from abusing animals, i.e. horses, a.k.a. zoosadism.

A Triptych

Part One........Horror & Shame

Animal cruelty is all around us. Just think of what’s going on for instance in circuses, laboratories, slaughterhouses, some religious rituals, movie making, and fishing (especially when hunting for shark fins).  And don’t forget these so called sports, i.e. dog fighting, cock-fights, and bullfighting. I hate those, can’t stand them, and often mock, ridicule, and challenge people who practice/admire same.

Here’s an example, a quote from what i wrote on my site in feb2011: Years ago a man invited me to a bullfight in Puerto Vallarta. When i cheered for the bull the moment he drove his horns into the belly of the coward ‘fighting’ him, my companion feared for my life (and his i guess), and hastily tried to calm the crowd where we were seated, nervously explaining to them that i was just an ignorant Gringa, lol. Me, a Gringa, can u imagine, hahaha.

Recently i was kicked out of a yahoo group. Yep, stuff like that happens to me a lot (sigh, sob). 

The owner of this particular group, a slave to his spouse whose dominant instincts he claims to have awakened and to whom he taught how to handle a bullwhip so she could punish him for whatever what, had more than enough of me criticizing him and his affiliates regarding ‘hard horseback riding’.  B4 it came to that, he praised me for my comments, telling me also i was “a natural born female supremacist” (yes, his words). Hahahaha, me a female supremacist? That poor guy probably never took some time off to read my take on that silliness. Or maybe he did, and instantly went into denial? 

Btw, what about u eh? U too believe that females r supreme and superior to males? U do? Oh noooooo, pulleeeezzzz, repent, adjust, change, convert, and stop that nonsense! What? U can’t u say? U r a hard believer u say? A rock without any doubt about our superiority? A fiery defender and relentless protector of Womyn’s Rights, unshakable in ur sacred quest? U too belong to the ones living in err, dedicating ur life to female supremacy, and will do anything to be an apostle of its rotten religion? Well….um….ur rotten religion eh, as there r not so many women subscribing to ur phantom church. Anyway, high time for u to read “Forget it” (again)!

Damn, now where was i? Oh yes, i was telling u about the one who couldn’t bear with me anymore. And  the ones following in his wake were very happy too once i became invisible in his (their) world. Cos that’s what he was defending: A world were horses r seen as a kind of commodity, a thing to be used, a living being to be cruelly hurt, pester, tortured, and abused, only existing to satisfy the lower instincts of a bunch of indifferent people who r playing down their lame attitudes and acts toward those animals by trying to convince themselves and others that what they r doing is beautiful, claiming to have the right to make the life of a horse as miserable as possible, only focusing on themselves and their deep seated sad drives. What a world. Yuck! Sick!

As a matter of fact, i consider these animal ‘games’ worse than ‘nazi-play’, and u know what i think about the latter. Oh u don’t? Then go here, and learn.

It all began after i had posted this: Ah that infamous hard riding, a.k.a. challenging riding or extreme riding. Here it is i who is wondering now how it is possible that a femdom could engage in this or encourage same. How is it possible that a woman could participate in the abuse and the deliverance of pain to an animal, i.e. a horse or a donkey, a creature absolutely not craving activities in the realm of d/s or s/m like some humans do. It’s disgusting!

I love horses and own several of them. I love the feeling to ride on their powerful backs, to speed along beaches, or softly talk to them during a relaxed ride in the forests. I was a kid the first time my father let me ride a pony. Since then horses were my trusted friends, and i will never lay a whip on them. And spurs? To hell with them!

 

Among other things, the head-goddess in that group replied: “……..please, do not judge nor post negative msgs about hard riding, since Riding Cult is one of most beautiful things we enjoy. So please respect our tastes and preferences.”

Turn a blind eye? Respect something i can only hold in contempt? Leaving something untold simply cos these people want to be among themselves, not to be disturbed by soft creatures like myself, or, as the afore mentioned slave so colorfully and eloquently expressed, not having to deal with ‘a pain in the ass’?

Well, that’s not me. So i wrote back: Look sister, i think u r one of a few commercially oriented women in Cyberspace who know how to wear boots and leather in a feminine way and to a certain extent is skilled in the art of whipping. I could befriend u for that, and maybe even more. But u lose me when it comes to hard riding for reasons i explained already. And i will speak my mind whenever and where ever i feel like it. No matter the consequences! Rest assured tho i won’t bother u and ur clients here anymore with my insights and actions about same. Well maybe. No promises! It had to be said tho, and i did. Chances r i will dedicate some words on hr on my own site. But, unlike u, i won’t ask u to refrain from commenting (no matter its content) after publication of same, should u have the urge to do so.

And, like i said, that did it, that was too much for Sir Slave. **Exit Ayesha**

Since i believe that group was created mainly to stimulate the sale of their videos focused on vanilla femdom and hard riding, i’m taking their r/l involvement with pestering and hurting horses (and donkeys) with a grain of salt. To boost the sale of their products somewhat more, i’m also under the impression that some of the postings over there, allegedly written by different male and females, actually come from the same person. But that’s just me. Maybe i’m wrong. Who cares? Not i. People r known for utilizing the strangest marketing techniques to get their products off the shelves. Pleasing customers is of paramount importance. Feeding their audience via the group with what they r after, offering them a platform to discuss what’s eating their souls, and to spice things up with pictures and an occasional clip, is possibly a great way to make some cash. And one certainly doesn’t need ‘pain in the asses’ like me to spoil all that eh?

The Internet is infested with groups and sites like that, although a good part of them  r not commercially operated, and exist only as some kind of lightning-conductor for dealing with personal frustration and to channel lowly brain activity to the private parts of the creator of the group and its membership. Most members do not participate in the discussion and never share anything. They just lurk, and hope that others will provide them with the badly needed stimulants. Cheap as they usually r, many also try to illegally lay their hands on commercially offered products. Then jerk off when watching those.

But who r these people really? What does the audience look like? Who gets off on watching animals suffer? Knowing the scene a bit, i think it’s safe to say they come from all walks of life. They can be ceo’s, garbage collectors, high ranking military personnel, drug traffickers, sweet moms (oh yes they too),  pastors, vets, u name it.  The intensity of the drive varies enormously too. Some people just need a little bit, others can only get relief from watching the most despicable atrocities, or participating in them. It’s not unlikely that these people r suffering from some serious psychological problems.

Within the hard riding area, many fans crave it when a horse’s tail is tied by a rope to a fence or a tree, and then is given the spurs as hard as possible, preferable not the English type but the ones with razor sharp rowels! The poor animal can go nowhere, but frantically tries to move forward in despair and agony, however to no avail. And they love to see the animal bleed, cheering it to suffer as long as possible. Some use barbed wire as a mouth piece, others r sexually turned on by breaking their horse’s teeth, and the ones that r getting hard from seeing animal blood on the boots of a dame coming back from a cruel ride, r countless. Sick!

To be clear, although i’m a saint, i eat meat (well not that much), i’m wearing leather most of the time (my wardrobe is extensive), and i’m not an animal rights activist. But……… i only devour eggs from free roaming egg-laying hens, and strongly support animal welfare. In fact, i find the whole animal issue confusing and struggle a bit with Richard Ryder’s concept of speciesism.

Be that as it may, to participate in activities where horses intentionally and deliberately r harmed, i reject to the fullest, and consider these activities mega objectionable. It’s sick and shameful!

 

Part Two........An Alternative

U know? It’s horrible to know that there r people who r linking this shit to femdom. Even in vanilla femdom circles it should be cursed and condemned! In contrast with what many seem to be convinced of and/or r marketing, female domination has nothing to do with abusing humans, animals in general, or horses in particular. People who r attracted to hurting animals r simply vanilla sadists, absolutely not connected to the world of d/s. A woman can strut around in leather and boots, wielding an exquisite whip, and riding a formidable horse, without being a dominant female. But she can easily be a vanilla sadist, or faking to be one, only to please a deranged man or to plunder his wallet. In fact, femdom and vanilla sadism r alien and antagonistic to each other! Femdom is the total enemy of vanilla sadism!

So, for all those in need of abuse and cruelty, why not cross over and keep all that between humans? There’s pet-play u know? It’s all over the mainstream/vanilla/recreational/commercial d/s place. Many women r already pleasing their men by riding their robust backs and/or massive shoulders (well, for some that’s fragile backs and/or sagging shoulders) during hot times outdoors, in secret cardboard dungeons in the attic or basement at home, during festive encounters with likeminded people in fetish clubs, or in high priced establishments of the pro-domme world.

It’s huge people. There’s some serious stuff going on in that area. No animals needed for that!

And u know what? No limits whatsoever. I mean agreed upon stuff of cors. Ssc no matter what. Complete consent or nothing. Free from stupid and unwilling animals which eventually could trample ur ass to pulp. Truly an encounter between a demanding and instructed dominatrix riding her hoof clad human horsie through the neatly vacuumed bedroom stall, proud tail protruding from his ass. And don’t forget the spurs eh? Really sharp ones of cors. Dig in ladies. No mercy! 

Now wouldn’t that be something? Of cors it would. So what r u waiting for? Go for it already! Go abuse and hurt that pathetic human horse of u to the fullest! He deserves it! Make him bleed!

And once the initial training sessions r over, once that mindless human animal finally learned his place between ur incredibly sexy legs and out of this world derrière (never mind advanced cellulitis), it‘s time to take it to the next level, to go out into the world, and challenge ur competitors, lame couples who dare to rival ur unique female supremacy and inferior male companion. Yeah, that’s the life u all have been dreaming of!  So what r u waiting for? Go for it already! Go get those slimy bastards!

Ok, feet on the ground again. Back to reality. Back to how women really feel about all this, what really is going on when they r trying to keep their balance while riding on their man into the sunset. Back in 2010 i wrote a piece about pet-play. It’s titled “Woof”. Regarding horses i posted: So, r there women who really enjoy riding on the back or the shoulders of a male? A male dressed up like a pony, with a tail sticking out of his butt? Women who dream about that, who get aroused when hopping around in the bedroom, wielding their riding crops? I don’t remember i ever got horny from that. But i sure felt stupid. I asked many women what their experiences were, and all of them disclosed to me, they found it rather inconvenient, ridiculous, if not stressful! 

And that’s how it is folks. Not sick. Only stupid. But highly preferable to harassing real horses! So go ahead, play on, and leave them real horses alone!

Part Three……..How it should be

Here r two videos from a man who’s the opposite of the creeps and i mentioned in Part One. A man who knows how to relate to his horses, who tries to understand them, instead of making their lives miserable and full of discomfort and suffering. A human being i want to salute, and respect indeed. Watch, enjoy, and learn.

And to close this up, here’s one of my favorites. It pictures what i love to do as well.

See y’all later. In the meantime…………

Aaaahhhhh.................sooooo good ;)

 שָׁלוֹם

Um............

I know, i know, some of u r wondering: Where the heck is she? Some of u r guessing about my whereabouts. Guess those guesses r wrong tho. Only a few people i gave a clue, a hint, but i don’t think they  figured it out for real. Some of u r wondering: Why doesn’t she tell us what she’s doing. Some of u r guessing what i have been up to. Guess those guesses r wrong as well, hehehe.

Don’t worry people, i’m still dancing.

Come join me now.

As for the rest of u, the masses who hate my guts, hope that i’ll rot in hell, and curse me?



Every 15 seconds

Here’s something for all the believers who constantly r announcing the imminent and inevitable arrival of global matriarchy. Its purpose is for  them to at least partially open up their eyes to the brutal reality of daily life, and also an attempt to make them realize and understand that their dream of a world ruled by loving, nurturing, and wise women, a world without patriarchal laws, norms and values, a world where men will be subservient to the female gender, is only based on wishful thinking, a fantasy, and possibly a twisted and/or mutated libido.

This is also meant for those who r new to the idea of a 21 century societal shift from patriarchy to matriarchy, who read about and became enchanted by the stories of ancient matriarchal communities, or r confused by the never ending attempts of female superiority fanatics to make them join their ranks and become worshippers and servants of so called Divine Womyn.

I wrote about the myths and fallacies regarding the idea that female leadership is by far more effective than what the patriarch has to offer in that area many times, for instance here. But people like for instance SH and his comrades don’t give a rat’s ass about the existing reality. They simply don’t want to see, and keep insisting that women will soon take over to rule the world, a world where docile men, preferably held in chaste, will serve and pleasure wise and sublime women. They find signs and proof for that in stuff like the performance of girls in schools, silly prose written from the perspective that women genetically r (mentally) superior to men in most areas, research done by and ideas from dames like Ava Parks, Liza Mundy, Elise Sutton, Jean Houston, and Rasa von Werder, Bible interpretations, and the fact that nowadays one can find baby changing tables in men’s restrooms.

Of cors these modern quasi-scholars, driven false prophets, and mislead gurus, have no problem to conveniently leave out the work of for instance Cordelia Fine, as well as critical reviews of books like The Richer Sex and other propaganda material promoting the coming age of blessed female rule.

Yes, what u r going to see is happening every 15 seconds. One in four women has to deal with this. And mind u, this is only for the USA. Now try to picture what's happening in the rest of our world.

So take a look, and get ur feet back on the ground!  

           

R u shocked? Matriarchy is still around the corner? Soon we will live in a world filled with peace, justice, and harmony, where wise and superior women will take care that all violence is a thing of the past? Yeah right!

Like i suggested here, it’s time that we women wake up, face reality as it is, fight it, and not let ourselves put to sleep by the crap launched by self proclaimed submissive men and the lullabies of silly women who believe that playing part-time d/s games in the bedroom and having their husbands do laundry and dishes, will bring us the above mentioned shift. A shift btw i would consider undesirable in the first place, if not plain stupid. Instead we need to be able to take care of ourselves, mentally as well as physically, yes especially physically, in a world which for a great part is sexist, violent, false, indifferent, hypocritical, dangerous, anti-female, unjust, and driven by greed, crime, war, and vanilla male dominance. 

For a long time to come we must learn to use men’s language and tools to defend ourselves against male violence, to crush their superior physical power over many of us, and to armor ourselves against their foul psychological abuse. It’s the only language creepy vanilla men understand. 

I’m here to testify that it was a great feeling the first time i physically forced a male down to his knees and begged me to end his ordeal. And in a way it still is. I’m here to tell u it’s a rush to be able to walk dangerous neighborhoods without any fear for getting attacked, robbed, or hurt. Some of u will remember i wrote about that in an earlier blog.


To not have to depend on others for safety is the way to go. I took things in my own hands. U should do the same. It’s ur turn now. So get those goddamn skills, and make any lowlife feel inferior and bite the dust from the streets, ur living room, or dance floor, the second u inevitably have brought him down! That’s femdom too u know? Even if u r not inclined to live a femdom’s life, u still should be able to dominate any vanilla threat, and never end up in a situation like the woman in the video. And u know who can help u with this? Yes, that's right: A real man! Like for instance the men i referred to here, and here.


For ur entertainment, to inspire u to finally get off ur lazy butt, and to let the idea of ur alleged female physical vulnerability evaporate into oblivion, go and watch the following videos as well. Although they r not 'real', they definitely show what is possible for us women to achieve. 

To hell with dreamy and rosy matriarchy. We’re here to dominate the foul side of patriarchy, and not to chase a fantasy coming from the subbie-hubbie ironing squad and weak women whose dominance depends on the willingness of males to top them from the bottom. And for those of u who r like me, let it be known that a femdom can blossom in any society, community, and environment, no matter what. No matriarchy needed for that.








The next video is a follow up to the one u just watched, showing among other things how anti-violence we r, but ready to use it if we r driven up against the wall, r trapped, or r left with no other choice to solve a problem.

Bonus.

U know? Even women who still believe in the existence of a higher power, a God, r heavy into what their religion tells them to do, i.e. following the dogma of “turn the other cheek”, can learn to ruthlessly act against male violence and abuse, without violating the commandments of their divine Lord. They simply should see themselves as the representative of God on Earth, his vassal, his servant, his warrior, his right arm seeking justice, allowed to take revenge on those who made it a habit to beat the shit out of the daughters of Eve. Watch and enjoy the extra video and see for urself :)

Eschaton

U r the chosen one

I will hunt u down

I will destroy u

Thou shalt not exist

U lied to me

I will take away ur speech

I will rip out ur tongue

Thou shalt not speak

U made fun of me

I will wipe that smirk off ur face

I will crush ur smile

Thou shalt not laugh

U twisted my words

I will set u straight

I will impale u

Thou shalt not bend

U let me down

I will burn ur pedestal

I will dig ur grave

Thou shalt not rise

U misled me

I will guide u to the promised land

I will lead u into temptation

Thou shalt not enjoy

U r the chosen one

I will hunt u down

I will destroy u

Thou shalt not exist

U tried to suck up to me

U tried to blame me

Yes u did

U deceived me

U fooled me

Ah, u think?

 

                               U r the chosen one!

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To ease this rather dark promise and to partly repair the link to the narrow-minded vanilla crowd, here’s some much needed mental food, to feed ur not really existing humbleness, to realize that ur way of life is not as sensible as u think it is, that ur truth is absolutely questionable, and that ur sacred religion has the same irrational roots as theirs. This video is a delicious parasite, to devour, to embrace, and to suffer from.  It’s here to invade ur mushy brain. Especially the brains of silly characters like SH and his loyal vassals could benefit from it. Oh u have no clue to whom i’m referring to? U sure? There r plenty of them on my site tho. He commented several times on a variety of prose that erupted from my soul. As i did on his site. He’s the one who is constantly babbling about some "natural order" that soon will overthrow ur patriarchal society, which of cors is not natural at all, hehe.   

Alas, i don’t think he will learn something from this video. He’s too rigid in his religious beliefs, too hungry to twist and mold the words of his Lord and Savior to fit his ideas of banal female superiority, and a bit too self-absorbed to see a new light. And on top of that he lives in enforced chastity. Can u imagine? He was enforced(!) into it! Yes that’s what he claims. “Huh? B….bu….but that’s non-consensual Ayesha”. Yes, u got that right, it means: Without his consent! Plain and simple. But his wife said (july 4, 2011), it was her gift to him, cos he wanted it so much.  Sometimes she wishes the damned device to get lost tho, lol. At best i’d call this a severe, but very common, case of a male topping from the bottom ending up in self-deceit. 

Ah, but u, yes u, and u too, u r different from him and his crowd. U will be able to pick up the message. Well….um…..if u have the perseverance to watch it till the end. Till eschaton so to speak, hehehe. But i’m convinced u will. Yes. Yes u can. And if u r a bit into femdom, u r in for a few really nice surprises too :)  So come with me, and let’s get over with this. A new mental beginning is here for u. And u. And yes, u there in the background, too. 

Protection?

Yes i know. Y’all can hardly wait for the next flaming episode of “Dominant housewives” to see the light of darkness and to be unedited published in this virtual medium. Patience people, patience. It will come, it will come for sure. In the meantime i wanted to dedicate a few words on protection, and especially on protection of the so called weaker sex. How so? Well I’ll tell u. In the beginning of this lovely month of אִייָר‎ 5772 (May 2012 AD for the apostates of the one and only true faith and religion) a lady, residing in a home where FLR is celebrated as the ultimate way of living, summoned the male audience of her blog to tell her if they were ready to act as the protector of their own mistress/goddess. Of cors this was all hypothetical, as most of these males were single, not involved with any kind of r/l d/s, and thus not in the position to speak from firsthand experience. On top of that, even hypothetically one couldn’t expect too much, cos they also were only sorrow examples of their gender. Well, maybe one or 2 were average, but who cares. Let’s generalize a bit this time.

I would have given u the url to her blog, were it not that she recently got very pissed off by a lot of comments regarding some farting dominant housewife. She therefore angrily deleted various entries of her blog, including the one i was referring to. So the reason to guide y’all to her sanctuary became obsolete and nonsensical. Hmmm, i’m sure u too have noticed this kind of action became almost viral these days, hehehe. I wonder why? 

Anyway as the seasoned prophetess that i am, i wrote to her: ".....as a servant and as a protector?" None of them! Well... um....maybe some of them could be a lousy third grade butler or something, but a protector? Lmao. From what i've read from their contributions to this blog, i don't expect any of them to have any skills in that area. Not mentally, and certainly not physically. But then again, u seem to have and like a mellow, harmonious, and sheltered way of living urself, far away from major antagonism, chaos, risk taking, adventure, and dangerous situations. So chances r u don’t really need a man who can stand his ground when called to the task to defend u. And besides, a domina shouldn’t need a protector in the first place. She should be able to take care of herself. Ever heard of Krav Maga?

The fact that up till now nobody answered ur question speaks volumes, don’t u think?

As usual……no response. Well not from her. And as time went by, nothing from the many docile and often slimy sweet talkers visiting her site either. So i was right. Again! (sigh).

But wait, there was one (1) exception. Some ignoramus had the courage to come up with: As for being a protector, I like to think that each member of a successful relationship protects the other in some ways. We each bring certain knowledge and ability to the table and combine those to make the whole greater than the sum of the parts. Bang! Now isn’t that something? With this powerhouse around, any woman should feel safe now eh?

He also needed to let her know: While I realize it is out of order to criticize a dominant, I find the comment from Ayesha quite offensive. A good FLM should be based on mutual respect and concern for one another's well being. Clearly, she has no respect for men at all. I pity the man who calls her mistress. Having read this, a deep silence came over me, and struck with guilt, i burst out in tears, flooding the place for hours. I’ll spare u my comment on his crap.

So in the end i advised this lady: ……should u ever meet one of these delicate brave paper tigers r/l, never take a stroll with them in some nasty backstreets of for instance LA or Miami where the true machos r ruling and hiding ;)

 

Again, no response. Yeah, ingratitude is the way of the vanilla world.

Anyway, now u know why i had this urge to publish this first. It was an emergency! Yes, that’s what it was! I just had to bring this to ur attention! To protect u from these creeps who will never protect a woman and will drop her like a hot brick the minute it becomes a bit more dangerous or out of their pitiful bourgeois comfort zone. No woman deserves a treatment and ordeal like that! Seriously, no woman should ever be in a position to have to rely for her protection on someone else, and certainly not on a weakling preaching the philosophy of the ”loving female dominant” who, contrary to that, secretly is only trying to make that so called dominant to do his bidding. Instead, she should be able to take care of herself. Under all circumstances!

See? Here again we have proof of the difference between femdoms and the rest of the female gender. Femdoms have an inborn urge for independence. Hence they make sure to pick up the necessary skills to protect themselves (and others, lol) when in need for same. Femdoms r always on the alert to defend and attack simultaneously. Femdoms hate it when their safety depends on others. Not so with dominant housewives, FLR queens, damsels in distress, and other vanilla females. They rather  wait for their heroes, and want their white knights, their lancelots, and their don quixotes to come to their rescue, to fight for them, or else helplessly perish in agony on the altar of eternal love and loyalty.

Of cors, even femdoms welcome and love help from other warriors. I know i do. I wrote about that in “Corrective measures” remember? And i also wrote there, and in many other places, that i hate violence. All true warriors do. But we r ready and very willing to ruthlessly deliver some in abundance the moment the scumbags and filth suppliers of this world call for it. Always! Yes, aggression is sleeping within us. Like a sweet little baby. Like a nuclear bomb. Better not be too noisy, if u get my drift. 

Now, watch and enjoy the videos (a long and a short one), meet a few real men, and two women i would want to have at my side when having to fight the enemy. Especially the first one stole my heart. And yes, the woman in the second video looks a bit like the one in the first, but it is not her :)

Note: The first video was taken off due to copyright stuff or something. So i replaced it today (june 16) by another one. But the content stayed the same.

And again it was removed.......grrrrrrr. So I uploaded another one (april 1 2013).  

Now ladies, i won’t asked u to get skilled in the military variant, but r u still not eager and convinced to enroll in a beginners course of civilian Krav Maga? No? Oh jeeez, then for Lilith’s sake, at least carry a kubotan keychain the next time u leave ur sheltered house. Come on. Don’t be a pussy!

 

 

 

Dominant housewives and company (part 1)

Intro

The other day i landed on a blog of which the owner, back in 2009, criticized the work of Nanshakh. As if this wasn’t already bad enough by itself, his assessment of this great femdom illustrator came across to me like one from a person who found some flaws in the ideology of Zionism and therefore condemned the whole movement including the state of Israel, or one who detected there was something not completely kosher with Obamacare and for that reason considered all medical insurance evil and demonic. I won’t tell u who this person was, cos it was Steve from The Glow Inside.

It also appeared that Steve believes that femdom doesn’t exist. According to what i could pick up from his prose and his comments on the matter during our brief exchange of thoughts, femdom for him is just a fantasy created by and to amuse males. Given the immense amount of nonsense told, written, and emptied into the sewers of the Internet by zillions of self proclaimed d/s connoisseurs on an hourly basis, i can imagine poor Steve could not come to a different conclusion. Mainstream femdom is based on male fantasy indeed and is far from the practices of women who were born dominant and live accordingly. Still, Sir Steve should have looked beyond his nose. He said he did, but i saw no sign of this. I told him about feminine femdom, and directed him to a few urls on my site. To no avail. The only thing he said he could conclude from my site was that i was a hypocrite, "……widely dismissive and scornful of the lifestyles of many others……." and "….. every time I read your blog – which is not that often I admit – I feel like I am being berated about my own inadequacy and then schooled in the ‘correct’ path, which always sounds very vague to me." The urls i sent him? "……sorry lady, but I just read through some more paragraphs of scorn heaped upon your beloved enemy, vanilla femdom, with not much idea of what you really do."

And then i thought: Hey, let me write another "dismissive and scornful" one. So, if u have any complaints, direct them to Steve. This blog and the next one r all his fault!

I’m sure u already suspect what’s coming ur way (again, hehehe). And yes u r right. This time i’ll aim at housewives. Not housewives in general mind u. Oh no. Too many great females among them for that. And i truly respect (well, with a certain smile dripping from leniency and goodwill eh?) the ones who sacrifice themselves on the altar of their spouse’s desire to be led, disciplined, and play second fiddle in the home. A true "exchange of power", hehehe. Yep, that’s what these men r after. Not that they would have possessed any significant power b4 that illusionary revolution, but still, for them it’s monumental, lol. Or is it only a feeble attempt to come to that?

Of cors these women know perfectly well they’re only playing along, and wouldn’t even think to claim otherwise. Some of them get depressed during the never ending process. Some of them feel lost after a while and need to constantly reconfirm their new role. Some of them learn the hard way that their husband is a wimp, and can’t take it when the wife truly takes over the reins. But these ladies r sincere and love their men. And they show it too! Still, it’s a world upside down.

So what will be my target today? Read on :)

State of affairs

We have desperate housewives, real housewives, suburban housewives, so on. But did u know there also r dominant housewives? No? Does domestic goddesses ring a bell? These days one can meet them everywhere. Especially on the Internet. And they blog, blog, and blog some more. When done blogging, they go to sleep. Or desperately continue searching for a man who needs a surrogate mom. Or look for porn. Femdom porn to be specific. Not that they r femdoms themselves eh? Far from that. Nevertheless they insist they r. And don’t tell them they’re not, cos then they’ll get nasty, lose control, start calling u names, and turn to their equally misguided followers to get rescued from evil people like urs truly. Time and again i did my best to explain to them who and what they really r. It didn’t help. I found no hearing. Can u imagine?

These self proclaimed dominants r not a new phenomenon. Their type inhabits planet Earth already for ages. We all know for instance the tales of Xanthippe (or maybe not?), and the way she allegedly treated poor Socrates. Molière called them les femmes savantes. A great specimen is Philaminte (played by a man, lol. Yes cross-dressing was already in back then, hehehe), a vain woman who believes she’s very sophisticated, irresistible, learned, and special. She intimidates and humiliates her husband (hubby or subhubby nowadays), and keeps him under her thumb. Really a true sub-archetype of her kind. More or less like Dufresny’s Madame Prenelle and her laughable husband Jeannot. Many followed in the footsteps of these characters, reinforced and supported in their belief to be dominant by the flattery of menfolk seeking to satisfy their equally lame idea of being a slave while in fact they’re nothing more than a henpecked husband.

Now don’t get me wrong eh? And don’t u dare to put words into my mouth! I’ll be the last one to deny these women and their acolytes adding a little bit of zest to their vanilla lives. But they r mega hardheaded u know, unshaken in their rigid and rusty beliefs, constantly declaring they r dominants to the backbone, while at the same time making excuses for not being dominant 24/7/365. Especially when they’re having kids still in the phase of terrorizing their homes, their dominance is going into hiding as soon as the little rascals r around. They write numerous blogs to explain all this, ending mostly with a definition of femdom which covers their specific way of living and the message that they have a sacred right for doing so. Of cors these dames know they r wrong, and r only corrupting the concept of femdom. Or could it be they’re that delusional? I’m sure some of them r, lol.

I can only guess their reasons for acting like that, but whatever they r, it’s stupid to hijack something that u didn’t want to own in the first place and never will/could be urs anyway. How do i know that? Oh, i came around u know? That should be sufficient no? It isn’t? Well, ok, i’ll lift part of the veil. Understand well tho, it’s not coming from hearsay. I would never claim to have knowledge about anything if i didn’t have at least some firsthand experience of it. For instance, i would never tell people what should be done or not in a war zone or how one makes decisions when under mortar fire, if i hadn’t be in situations like that myself. I leave the latter to women like the one who (rightly so) believes her dominance is a bit disheveled and who was only too eager to lecture me about war, basing same only on what she learned from some of her family members who happened to be (once) in the military. I would have provided a link to show u this, but she removed 22 comments of the original 51, so that wouldn’t make much sense to do. Yes, it’s like my outstanding friend Raposo Neves once wrote: "To contribute to the conversation" around these parts means saying the same as everybody else, just with different words. Indeed, as soon as it gets a bit out of the mainstream bubble, controversial, interesting, hot, or challenging, these people favor to be in denial of reality.

So again, how do i know? From having met plenty of this breed the time i still was visiting conferences on bdsm, fetish clubs, and munches. From having read books on the subject by writers like Elise Sutton (and angrily dismissed their patriarchal based femdom). From having participated in Yahoo Groups discussions and a litany of forums. From reading blogs. From having had online conversations with some of these people. Of cors also from the time i was involved with mainstream d/s myself. And i won’t even mention my ability to look into the soul of anyone i would target for it, to break down their defenses in a minimum of time, and to have on the sly a sneak peek into their hidden and unknown compartments. No, i won’t do that. And neither will i reveal the thoughts of other women like myself on this specific subject, or tell u about the grinning of my slaves when they read blogs like for instance the one of a woman who prefers to come online as one of the Pteridophyta, a reluctant dominant who tells us she’s constantly in trouble, or that female lawyer who believes it’s of utmost importance that men should write tons of lines for punishment. So no, absolutely not. Hmmmm, maybe i will. But not now.

It became clear to me that most of these women r not in it cos they r dominant, but, like the rest of their vanilla sisters, cos they r submissive, illustrating same by going along with the desire of their husband to be dominated by them. Again, as long as they keep from telling me and the rest of the in-crowd how dominant they r, all is fine. Play along, enjoy,  and be happy, but leave femdom to femdoms and stop contaminating my beautiful world.

Many males, allegedly dwelling in the suburbs of the velvet underground, argue that a woman’s dominance can be awakened, that it is only slumbering within her, waiting for Prince Slave to show his Goddess the way to ever happy and prosperous SlaveryLand. I call this desperate wishful thinking, leading to a never ever self-fulfilling prophecy. A woman simply knows if she’s dominant or not. She doesn’t need anybody to tell her that, nor a man to prepare her for her awakening or to manipulate her into that direction. Yes i know. Many women in this medium r trying to convince their readers this fable is true and how they gradually became more and more dominant, how they, after having done some rigorous soul searching, discovered their inner femdom and how they freed themselves from the patriarchal yoke. Yeah right. It’s crap people! Yes, that’s what it is: Crap! Why else would they keep on hiding their so called new found personality from their family, friends, colleagues, and the public in general?  

And don’t get me started on them switches, who after having jump started their dried out vanilla engines, erratically and out of control r navigating from dom-space to sub-spave vv in ssc-space, hahaha. Ridiculous!

Still, as i explained in my blog about Lilith and Eve years ago, there r women among us who r not submissive at heart and would want to be like Lilith, the archetype of freedom, independence, assertiveness, sexual aggression, and honesty. Alas, many of them lack the courage and cultural background to indeed follow in her footsteps and do what their inner voices tell them to do. On the contrary, most of these women choose, willingly or not, to be like Eve, the archetype of submissiveness and dishonesty, camouflaging same by displaying what is called in the culture at force, kindness, warmth, friendliness, altruism, etc. Hence the concept of the “loving female authority” was born. It’s a cunning way of responding to their situation and the sexual desires of males who, like these women, never will go all the way, who never would want to fall into the hands of a woman like me, afraid as they r for women who truly were born to own a stable of slaves, who laugh at d/s monogamy, mock all that nonsense of building a d/s relationship, the responsibility that comes with same, and all the other issues which ad nauseam r discussed in the virtual world and beyond. 

When it comes right down to it, these women r pampering their self proclaimed servants’ ego and sexual urges in order to get from them in return what they want from these men without having even remotely to be dominant. It’s simply the well known vanilla relationship where the woman knows how to play her man, how to wind him round her little finger. Of cors the participating parties will mostly deny this, and insist they’re truly and genuinely working toward a d/s relationship or even r in it already. Call it FLR, WLH, FLH, or whatever, but refrain from calling it d/s or worse………femdom. Cos it is not! 

So, while most women will lead a life according to what the patriarch has designed for them, some females, still feeling the remnants of what Lilith ages ago sowed in the DNA of the female gender, will cultivate these delicate seeds, make them grow and flower again. Then harvest them ruthlessly. Those women r femdoms! Compared to the masses there r only a few of us. But we do exist. We always have. Even in ultra patriarchal societies we survived. Often we r and were described as tyrants, demons, evil witches, monsters, so on. Like it was done for instance with Lilith, Vashti and Morgana le Fay. Done only cos males fear(ed) us and need(ed) to destroy our splendor, resilience, integrity, and strength, for them to be able to uphold their fragile ego and fake dominance. Of cors Eve and Esther became celebrated heroines just cos they bowed to and were servile to their man. 

The sad thing is, that even nowadays so many women r still supporting the patriarch and his outdated and narrow-minded values, norms, ideas, and philosophies, while, since it became trendy in certain circles of their society, at the same time r trying to make others believe of the opposite. The true numbers of femdoms r currently blurred by these so called dominant housewives, other self proclaimed recreational female dominants, and women who want to resist the patriarch but can’t bring themselves to go all the way and leave his world. Their solution? They start(ed) to challenge him without leaving that world, and instead, try to fight him with the same tools he has used to subjugate them since the down of times, to imitate him, and to become his equal. Hence emancipation, feminism, the cry for women’s leadership, and vanilla femdom were born.

Add to this the deep rooted desire of males, including those bragging semi- machos, to be the slave to a woman, the same cowardice never to go for that all the way, and their fear for not complying with the demands of archaic as well as newly developed convictions in their vanilla society, et voilà the inevitable continuation of more of the same, sold as progress, gender equality, and yes, fake female dominance, fake slavery, and fake slaves (often replaced by sub, and worse, by subbie hubby, pet, boi, toy, fucktoy, or whatever derogatory silliness), is a fact and here to stay for a long time to come.

Luctor et emergo?

Oh i did, i did. Rest assured i did. Many times even. And believe me, it wasn’t always an easy thing to do. But they? Nah, not really. Still, they r struggling all right. I mean with their new found dominance eh? Sometimes in a more serious way, other times with clenched teeth and trying to be witty without being humorous, but always in a dull, boring and cliché fashion. If i tell them so, they start knitting their brows, inevitably r coming up with all kinds of crap to get me in line with their vanilla convictions, and in the end will ban me from posting to their precious blogs, forums, or groups.

In one of the blogs i was contributing to till i became her persona non grata, the lady of the house made it her quest to interview numerous awakened housewives and company, asking them an array of non-committal questions during these events. No wonder she repeatedly avoided to respond to my more challenging questions herself. Not that they were really challenging eh? But i'm sure they were interpreted like that, hehe. 

She invited me too, but it never came to that, due to the fact that she couldn’t bear i only would participate without any conditions set. Yep, i’m all for free speech, anti moderation, and alien to censorship. One would expect all dominant women to support this, to think and act like that. And they do u know. It’s them fake dominants pretending to be dominant and r following them destructive rules of them creepy conservative patriarchs, who don’t, not us.

Brace urself for Part 2 :)